12 Bitter Truths That People With Soft Hearts Will Have A Hard Time Understanding

There are truths. Then there are bitter truths that we fail to accept because they hurt. No matter how much you run away from these universal truths, they'll come back chasing you with a gruesome grin because they are inevitable.?

And it is the truths you learn during your life that affect you the most.?

That turns your life for good or for bad. What is more important is how you deal with them and move forward because another truth is that 'life goes on.'

1. Loving someone–or being loved by someone–is not the same thing.

Because loving someone is about ownership, being in love is a partnership.

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2. Things will not change for good for you if you don't face failure.

Failure is inevitable, and it the failure that leads you to success.

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3. You are alone in your advances. No one is going to help you as much as you can help yourself.?

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4. Self-doubt has the potential to destroy you forever.

It hinders creativity, productivity and makes you hesitant.

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5. No one will love you exactly the way you wanted or imagined.?

So you have to love yourself first while people can only add to your existing happiness and are not a sole source.

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6. There is one perfect time for everything.

When people say it is never too late, it is and you know it.?

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7. No one cares how difficult your life is.

Get that straight. Nobody is going to relate to your problems. So instead be your own guide.?

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8. A lot of people dream to have a life just like yours.?

No one is going to come to you and tell you this. You are blessed. Try and always see all the good you possess.?

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9. You'll only have 2-3 friends you can call real friends in your entire lifetime.

Having a few friends helps you live longer and help you lead a happier life than having tons of friends.?

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10. No matter what people say, looks matter a lot.?

If not entirely, it does have a larger impact than you can think of. An attractive person does have an upper hand over an unattractive one.?

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11. No one is absolutely altruistic.

Believe it or not but everyone is selfish. Some are more than the other. But everyone is.?

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12. You'll always be a bad person in someone's book.

Even if you think you've done nothing wrong to anyone, there will be people not liking you for some reason that might remain unknown to you.?

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