It's Actually A Hidden Blessing: 7 Positives Of Being A Single Mother
No one is denying that being a single mom has its own set of challenges but it definitely can be a blessing. The strength a single mother possess in unmatched. You may have heard sob stories or passed a judgement here and there about single mothers but one should know it's a blessing.
Here are 7 advantages of being a single mother.
1. Independence?
Being a single mother gives you the advantage of handling family situations all by yourself. Single mom will have a way to handling responsibilities and resolving issues and she wouldn't want a partner teach her what to do and what not to. The freedom to choose what is good for the child is utmost important for the mother.
2. A closer relationship with the children
Since you are managing your children all by yourself, the connect is like no other. Infact, even the kids create an unbreakable bond with you and help you and be around you in whatever capacity they can.
3. Emerge as a strong human being
You are dedicated, you are strong and you are a powerful mom and let no one tell you otherwise. Raising kids all alone requires another level of strength and if you have managed this successfully, then nothing in this world can or should stop you. Men should
4. Gets to make all decisions
I think most married ladies always secretly wish for this. To decide which school the kids should receive education from, which playschool they should study in, which society you should stay at for the betterment of your kids, all these decisions are upto you and there will be no one to argue with you.
5. Children also learn to be empowered?
When kids see their mother hustling, working hard to give a good life and braving everything the society is saying about her, it not only inspires the kids but also empowers them to do better, give a better life to the mom eventually. It inspires them to not let her down, with no pressure whatsoever.
6. Cope up with any stress that life throws at them
Resilience, stress, problems, well, the single mom has seen it all. Letting go of your spouse either to divorce or death is not easy. Leading a single mom life is not easy but she shows how to raise a child without complaining and regretting.?
7. Date anyone you like and enjoy the simple things that being single has to offer
To the best part, after all the hustling and the difficult, singe mom can have her friends coming to your place for a drink, can go out for dinners, can be on Tinder and Bumble, can date, can chill, can hook up. It's all allowed because you are single and doing a fantastic job at raising kids and definitely deserve to unwind.
