9 ways to add intimacy in your long-term boring relationship
When you first met you probably did not have to devise plans or spend time thinking of ways to bring excitement to your relationship. The early stages of a relationship are all about discovery and exploration but what happens a few years down the line? The longer you stay together with one person the more comfortable you get with them but on the other hand, this increased comfort has the chance to bring about a certain sense of stagnancy.
If you also find your relationship stuck in a rut or you feel that you have lost the spark of the initial days, don't panic! Here are 9 simple ways through which you can add intimacy and spice back into your union.
Ways to spice up a long-term relationship
1) Have a regular date night
Getting dressed up and going out is exciting no matter your age. During the earlier days of your relationship, both of you went out of your way to plan something exciting and look good for the other person but over time, especially once you start living together, going out took a back seat. Don't let this pattern continue and bring back the fun in your relationship by scheduling weekly date nights.??
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2) Explore new things
Yes, ordering in and enjoying pizza on a Saturday night sounds heavenly but have you realised that is all that both of you seem to be doing lately? It is now time to get out of your comfort zone and take your partner something that you wouldn't have otherwise. And if you're worried about your street cred don't worry! Failing together is equally fun.
3)?Plan a surprise adventure?
If you feel your relationship going through a rut and feel like completely shaking things up then taking a trip together can add a great deal of enjoyment to your life. If you have budget constraints, don't fret you don't need to go somewhere overseas local trips can be just as fun and stimulating.? ??
4) Do mundane chores together
Rather than trying to just get the household chores done why not enjoy them together? Something as simple as washing the dishes or doing laundry together can be a great way to spend time together after a hectic workday. Aside from bringing excitement back into your relationship through open and honest communication as you work around the house also relieves work-related stress.
5)?Flirt and try to impress each other
Remember your courtship period when you went above and beyond trying to impress each other? From thoughtful gifts to flirty one-liners, no stone was left turned. Bring those days back and experience falling in love with your partner all over again!? ??
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6) Spend time apart
While it may sound counterintuitive, spending time apart can actually strengthen your relationship as most people lose the spark in their relationship when they are always around each other. Sometimes in a quest to give our all in a relationship, we tend to lose our individuality. Spending time apart doing your own thing is equally important to spending quality time together. So make that long-due plan with your friends and give both of you the opportunity to miss each other.
7)?Work on a project together
There is always something or the other in a home that needs work done. Rather an cribbing about it or hiring someone to get it done why not DIY? Simple projects that do not require hard labour such as putting up a shelf, painting a surface or assembling furniture can bring fun to your life and relationship. And if you both enjoy home improvement projects, the good news is you will never run out of stuff to do.
8) Revisit old haunts
Memories hold a special place in every relationship. Reminiscing about the past by visiting places that hold fond memories such as places where you shared all your firsts, such as your first date, your first kiss and even your first fight strengthens your bond and increases the love you both share.
9) Most importantly, Communicate
Communication is one of the most important aspects of keeping your relationship alive. Effectively and regularly communicating not just your wants and desires but also your criticisms and disapproval is the quickest way of addressing and overcoming loss of interest from your partner.
A long-term relationship is a joy to experience. But as you grow old together you might start missing the rush of the initial days. Whether you feel that your relationship is lacking passion or your love has faded over the years, these simple and effective tips will spice up your love life once again.
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