6 ways to politely say no to your ex who is trying to reach out to you
It's difficult to move on from a relationship that was long and meaningful. When two people call it quits, it is easy if its mutual but if it's one sided, the past comes to haunt you. The ex might want to reach out to you and make things work.
If you are the one who has decided to move on from a relationship, then here are 6 ways to politely yet firmly tell your ex to keep away. You have to be respectful, firm and clear in your actions and speech.
1. Acknowledge their feelings
Respect that your ex wants to get back to you or is in love with you. Do not dismiss their feelings.
2. Be clear and convey your decision
After acknowledging, make sure you convey your feelings too. If you are not interest, please be vocal about how you feel
3. Set boundaries and stick to them
Do not at any point, enjoy the love you are getting from your ex. Set boundaries regarding this relationship and ensure you stick to it.
4. Do not lead them on, not even for fun
Do not enjoy the attention, mock their feelings or discuss it with friends who can potentially make fun of it. Try and help your ex in moving on.
5. If possible, finish on a polite note
The ex could go either ways, be temperamental or be pleading and begging. It will be for the best, if you can end things on a decent and polite note. Always best to take the morale high road
6. Using these lines may actually help you
?"I believe it's best for both of us to move on separately."
"I hope you can respect my decision and not reach out to me about this again."?
"I want to be upfront that I'm not interested in getting back together."?
