Can money buy happiness? This is a question that has contrasting answers when asked to different people of various age groups, professions and geographical locations. Some may think yes money can buy happiness, while some may strongly disagree.
But as per the world's longest happiness study, which was conducted by Harvard, the answer to this question is:?no, money cannot buy you happiness.
This is the answer according to Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz, authors of 'The Good Life,' according to the findings of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, which is the world's longest study on happiness. The new book has answers along with the data to back it up, as mentioned in a?Reuters report.
For most financial experts, the point is to not treat money as the ultimate goal, but as a means to an end, to shape a meaningful existence.
Since 1938, the Harvard Study of Adult Development has tracked people ¨C now up to three generations ¨C to find out what really makes for a satisfying life and what does not.
Ą°Money canĄ¯t buy us happiness, but itĄ¯s a tool that can give us security and safety and a sense of control over lives,Ąą says co-author Schulz, who is also a psychology professor at PennsylvaniaĄ¯s Bryn Mawr College. Ą°At the end of the day, life is really about our connections with others. ItĄ¯s our relationships that keep us happy.Ąą
Here is what the worldĄ¯s longest study on happiness can teach us about our lives, our careers and, yes, our money:
Our tendency as a society is to imagine that being a big achiever will solve all our problems.
Not so. In the Harvard study, the sample of participants with Ą°more prestigious jobs and more money were no happier in their lives,Ąą Schulz says.
The notion that you will be satisfied if you chase a money-oriented achievement ¨C like a big promotion pushes happiness into the future and is always out of reach.?Says Schulz: Ą°The problem with that approach is that life passes you by.Ąą
The more complex answer to the simple question of whether money can buy happiness is this. Yes, money is obviously a big part of our everyday lives, and up to a certain income level ($75,000 in?a?well-known study) will indeed affect our satisfaction, in terms of meeting basic needs and providing for our families.?
But?beyond that, though, there is no correlation. For most financial experts, the point is to not treat money as the ultimate goal, but as a means to an end, to shape a meaningful existence.
Yes, the main purpose of going into the office is for the paycheck. But do not discount all the little daily interactions with the people around you in the office, because it turns out they are very important indeed.
Ą°A large part of our waking lives is spent at work, and if you believe that relationships make for a good life, then you need to think about your connections at work,Ąą Schulz says. Ą°Those relationships are important to your well-being because you spend such a large amount of time with them.Ąą
As per the report, retirement represents a significant risk to many peopleĄ¯s happiness and sense of self-worth: Since so many people are so identified with their careers and job titles, retirement can take all that away and make them feel totally lost.
That is why mid-career professionals should think about that gear-shifting now. Build a life framework with purpose and meaning and networks outside of the office. That could mean taking up new activities, or repairing old friendships, or volunteering for favourite causes.
Ą°People who have done best in retirement are those who lean into it, and think about their social connections, and rebuild their networks outside of work,Ąą book's co-author Schulz adds.
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Accumulating more stuff is not going to nudge the happiness meter, according to the studyĄ¯s findings. Instead, think in terms of experiences.
Ą°Rather than buying a bigger house or a nicer car, if you use your money to share experiences with others, that money will get you a better return on happiness,Ąą Schulz says.
That might be a vacation, or treating your family to a nice dinner.?"Those are the kinds of activities that allow us to connect,Ąą he adds, as per the report.
How the Harvard Study operates is by checking in with respondents ¨C 724 original participants, some of whom are still around, and 1,300 descendants ¨C for occasional reflection and self-evaluation.
Are they happy? Are they where they want to be? Are there areas where they are falling short?
There is no reason why the rest of us cannot do the same, with periodic check-ins. That way, if your career and friendships and finances are not working together to give you a life of purpose and meaning, you can adjust course.
Ą°ItĄ¯s absolutely critical,Ąą Schulz reportedly says. Ą°There are gains to be made by doing some self-examination, and figuring out whether you are doing whatĄ¯s really important to you.Ąą
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