Just when you think life is going on perfectly, life throws a curve ball and things change in just a single moment. For Bollywood actor Sonali Bendre, this year has been a challenging one. Currently, Sonali is in New York undergoing cancer treatment.
Sometimes, when you least expect it, life throws you a curveball. I have recently been diagnosed with a high grade cancer that has metastised, which we frankly did not see coming. A niggling pain led to some tests, which led to this unexpected diagnosis. My family and close friends have rallied around me, providing the best support system that anyone can ask for. I am very blessed and thankful for each of them. There is no better way to tackle this, than to take swift and immediate action. And so, as advised by my doctors, I am currently undergoing a course of treatment in New York. We remain optimistic and I am determined to fight every step of the way. What has helped has been the immense outpouring of love and support I¡¯ve received over the past few days, for which I am very grateful. I¡¯m taking this battle head on, knowing I have the strength of my family and friends behind me.
A post shared by Sonali Bendre (@iamsonalibendre) on Jul 3, 2018 at 11:46pm PDT
Instead of being bogged down with the challenges that her life has thrown at her, she has decided to battle it with positivity. The way she is dealing with everything is a proof that there is no challenge too big for her. Giving an update on her life in New York, Sonali Bendre wrote a heart-warming note. In her note, she has shared her new look and even thanked Priyanka Chopra.
Just a few weeks ago, she had shared that she had to chop off her hair due to chemotherapy now she has decided that she will sport a wig when she feels like it. She starts the note with a popular quote, ¡°Vanity is my favourite sin.' In her note, she wrote,
"Vanity is my favourite sin." - Al Pacino
"Vanity is my favourite sin." - Al Pacino Well, it might not be my all-time favourite sin (that would be gluttony ?), but who doesn't like looking good? The way we look has a profound psychological impact on us... A little vanity here and there does no one any harm. It's important to do what makes you happy, even if it's something as simple as wearing a wig, bright red lipstick, high heels.... All that white noise doesn't make a difference in the larger picture. No one can tell you what's right or wrong for you. When I was testing out the wigs, I had a brief moment of self-doubt... "Am I vain for wanting to look good?" As part of the entertainment industry, you're always expected to look good... Maybe that has been ingrained in me? But then I gave it a thought and I realized I like looking good for me. If I'm in the mood to wear a scarf, I will. If I want to walk around bald and free, I will. Only you know what would make you feel good, and what works best for you. So take every opportunity you can to #SwitchOnTheSunshine. #OneDayAtATime ?? Thank you @priyankachopra for connecting me with the amazing @bokheehair, who created my new look.
A post shared by Sonali Bendre (@iamsonalibendre) on Sep 4, 2018 at 11:14pm PDT
Well, it might not be my all-time favorite sin (that would be gluttony ), but who doesn't like looking good?
The way we look has a profound psychological impact on us... A little vanity here and there does no one any harm. It's important to do what makes you happy, even if it's something as simple as wearing a wig, bright red lipstick, high heels... All that white noise doesn't make a difference in the larger picture. No one can tell you what's right or wrong for you.
From the moment he was born 12 years, 11 months and 8 days ago, my amazing @rockbehl took ownership of my heart. From then on, his happiness and wellbeing have been the centre of anything @goldiebehl and I ever did. And so, when the Big C reared its ugly head, our biggest dilemma was what and how we were going to tell him. As much as we wanted to protect him, we knew it was important to tell him the full facts. We¡¯ve always been open and honest with him and this time it wasn¡¯t going to be different. He took the news so maturely¡ and instantly became a source of strength and positivity for me. In some situations now, he even reverses roles and takes on being the parent, reminding me of things I need to do! I believe that it¡¯s imperative to keep kids involved in a situation like this. They are a lot more resilient than we give them credit for. It¡¯s important to spend time with them and include them, rather than make them wait on the side-lines, not being told yet instinctively knowing everything. In our effort to protect them from the pain and realities of life, we might end up doing the opposite. I¡¯m spending time with Ranveer right now, while he¡¯s on summer vacation. His madness and shenanigans help me #SwitchOnTheSunshine. And today, we derive strength from each other #OneDayAtATime
A post shared by Sonali Bendre (@iamsonalibendre) on Jul 18, 2018 at 11:29pm PDT
When I was testing out the wigs, I had a brief moment of self-doubt... "Am I vain for wanting to look good?" As part of the entertainment industry, you're always expected to look good... Maybe that has been ingrained in me? But then I gave it a thought and I realized I like looking good for me.
In the words of my favourite author Isabel Allende, ¡°We don't even know how strong we are until we are forced to bring that hidden strength forward. In times of tragedy, of war, of necessity, people do amazing things. The human capacity for survival and renewal is awesome.¡± The outpouring of love I¡¯ve received in the last few days has been so overwhelming¡ and I¡¯m especially grateful to those of you who shared stories of your experiences in dealing with cancer, whether it was your own or of loved ones. Your stories have given me an extra dosage of strength and courage, and more importantly, the knowledge that I¡¯m not alone. Each day comes with its own challenges and victories and so for now, I¡¯m taking this #OneDayAtATime. The only thing I¡¯m trying to be consistent about is maintaining a positive outlook... literally #SwitchOnTheSunshine - it¡¯s my way of dealing with this. Sharing my journey is also part of this process... I can only hope it reminds you that all is not lost and that someone, somewhere understands what you¡¯re going through. ?? Thank you @tomoarakawa for making this a chic transition from long to short!
A post shared by Sonali Bendre (@iamsonalibendre) on Jul 10, 2018 at 12:20am PDT
If I'm in the mood to wear a scarf, I will. If I want to walk around bald and free, I will. Only you know what would make you feel good, and what works best for you.
So take every opportunity you can to #SwitchOnTheSunshine. #OneDayAtATimeThank you @priyankachopra for connecting me with the amazing @bokheehair, who created my new look.
