How To Stand Out In A Crowd Of Men On Dating Apps

The dating scene has drastically changed in the age of smartphones and dating apps. It's not just about meeting someone in person and making a good impression anymore. Instead, the first impression is now made on a screen. For men looking to woo women on dating apps, this new dynamic can be challenging. With so many profiles to sift through, it can be difficult to stand out and catch the attention of the right person.

Many men also tend to have problems not finding sufficient amount of matches on these dating apps and when they do, things tend to simmer down way too soon. However, with the right approach and mindset, men can still successfully navigate the world of online dating and win over potential partners. In this article, we'll explore some effective strategies shared where men can up their game to win big at dating apps. Ms Sybil Shiddell, Country Manager India, Gleeden, an 'extramarital dating app,' has also given advice on what men can do that can work well for them:

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Make a profile that will definitely stand out

Your profile is your chance to make a great first impression. In fact, whether you like it or not, that is the only thing that will help you find a match in the first place. So make sure it's well-crafted and showcases your best qualities. Use high-quality photos and write a profile description that is authentic, engaging, and showcases your unique personality. "Your profile should be an extension of your personality - showcase your interests, likes, dislikes, and sense of humour," says Sybil.

Try to find common interests

A lot of time, people find you interesting by seeing how you have similar interests as them. "Take a closer look at the woman's profile, read her bio, and check out her interests. If both of you share a love of hiking, photography, music or travel, use that as a conversation starter," says Sybil. This will show how you paid attention to what they want to show and also it is always fun to talk about similar interests and get a whole new set of information or trivia about it.

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Show how thoughtful you are

Women appreciate men who are respectful and thoughtful, so take the time to read their profiles and personalise your messages to them. Avoid sending generic messages and instead, show that you've taken the time to learn more about them. Comment on something specific in their profile that caught your attention and asks them a question about it. This shows that you're interested in getting to know them as a person and not just looking for a hookup.

Be confident but avoid getting overconfident

Confidence definitely is attractive. But there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. Crossing that line can definitely become a turnoff for many. Sometimes, men do tend to think that showing off and bragging about what they have will make them more attractive to women. However, this can have the opposite effect. "Avoid using phrases like 'I'm the best,' 'I'm so rich,' or 'I have a six-pack.' Instead, try striking a balance by using humour and asking her about her own accomplishments," says Sybil.

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Humour is always the best idea

There is a reason comedians tend to always win big when it comes to dating. Women definitely like men who can make them laugh. "Humour is the way to a woman's heart, and a well-crafted joke can make her day. Don't worry about being a stand-up comedian, but try to incorporate some humour into your conversation. A funny pick-up line or a witty remark can break the ice and give you the thumbs up from your date," says Sybil. Other than that, if you feel that there is no interesting aspect to your profile, you can always add a funny line to your bio. Women definitely tend to notice.

Do not be pushy and aggressive

"While it's important to show interest, don't come across as too pushy or aggressive. Respect her boundaries, and don't try to force her into anything. Take things slow and give her time to get to know you," says Sybil. This could be in regard to sharing contact details or going out on dates. Also, be aware of your tone. Avoid using aggressive or demanding language, and don't make assumptions about what she wants or expects. Be respectful, friendly, and open-minded.

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Try showing your romantic side

Women appreciate men who are romantic and thoughtful, so show your romantic side when communicating with someone on a dating app. This could include sending her a thoughtful message, complimenting her on something specific, or planning a creative date idea. Other than that, you can also share verses from your favourite romance novel or share romantic music if you think she would be into it and feel like you have reached that stage in talking.

Always be patient

Online dating can be a slow process, so don't get discouraged if you don't immediately find a match. Be patient, keep putting yourself out there, and stay positive. It may take some time to find the right match but don't give up. Whenever there is a match, try to be as open-minded and as courteous as possible. Remember that everyone's journey is different and you'll find the right match when the time is right.

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In conclusion, be a good listener, be respectful of her time, show your romantic side, and avoid sending sexual messages. With a positive and respectful approach, you'll increase your chances of finding a meaningful connection with someone special.