Discovering 'Beige Flags', The Brutal Dating Trend You Shouldn't Overlook

The ever-evolving landscape of modern dating often introduces new terms to help navigate its complexities. Alongside existing challenges like "icks," "zombieing," and red flags, there is now a concept called "beige flags" that deserves attention.

Singles now have another color on their radar when identifying dating mistakes and missteps.

While we have been cautioned to watch out for red flags that indicate aggression, jealousy, or possessiveness during first dates, Tinder encounters, or casual relationships, it is equally important to consider the opposite end of the spectrum.

In essence, rather than solely focusing on warning signs of negative behaviors, individuals seeking love should also be mindful of subtle indications that someone may be uninteresting or lacking excitement.

The phrase "beige flags" encapsulates these indicators.

Caitlin MacPhail, who has aptly labeled herself as the 'CEO of beige flags,' has effectively encapsulated this concept by introducing a term that describes individuals who are fundamentally incompatible due to their tendency to induce boredom.

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To identify these individuals, one can employ the strategy of examining their dating profiles.

Caitlin explained in a TikTok video: "There's a lot of dating app red flags doing the rounds again at the moment, but I wanted to address something that I think is a little bit more prevalent that I have coined beige flags¡ªsigns, you're probably very boring."

It would be advisable to take a moment to prepare for what follows for individuals with an affinity for cheesy sitcoms, puppies, or engaging in light-hearted debates.

Subsequently, Caitlin proceeded to outline specific instances that qualify as examples of beige flags.

"First up is having an opinion on coriander, whether pineapple belongs on pizza, or [if] sauce or chocolate belongs in the fridge or cupboard," she began.

"It's not important. No one cares."

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She added, "Second is any reference to extremely mainstream sitcoms [...] I'm just going to assume you have no deeper meaning."

If your dating profile includes a reference to seeking a relationship akin to 'the Pam to your Jim,' it may be essential to consider adjusting to enhance its appeal.

According to Caitlin, the third is: "using puppies to hide your lack of personality. Look, I really want the dog. I don't even want you in that case. So jog on."

It is strongly advised to refrain from referencing Excel, spreadsheets, or anyone attempting a cringe-worthy pun by claiming to be a 'freak in the sheets' within your dating profile.

Furthermore, Caitlin advises against stating a preference for someone who can handle your banter, as this line has become overly familiar and lacks originality.

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Notably, the video showcasing these insights has garnered over half a million views on the platform, generating significant engagement from social media users eager to share their thoughts on this phenomenon.

One TikTok user wrote, "People don¡¯t talk about beige flags enough." Another comment read: "Oh my god, I felt this so deeply. This is a true work of art," praised a third, "Never have I seen a list so accurate and so perfectly beige."

It is essential to remember that what may be perceived as beige by one individual could be seen as appealing and romantic by another. Ultimately, embracing your preferences and staying true to yourself is essential.

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