Here Is How You Can Build a Long-Lasting Relationship That Stands Strong

You may have heard your parents say how 'in their times' relationships actually used to last because they made efforts to make it work. While one may feel that the times were different when our parents were young and that things have changed drastically when it comes to relationships and dating now, they may have some truth to what they say.

If you look at it now, every second person is either dating or in a relationship nowadays. But as easy as it is to enter a relationship, maintaining one has become a problem. Divorce rates are exponentially high and relationships are barely lasting for more than six months.

Reasons why relationships don't last long enough nowadays?

QuackQuack's Founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "Our recent survey showed that more than 31% of people break up before completing six months in a relationship. So, what breaks relationships now more than usual or more than a decade ago:

Lack of communication and emotional intimacy

Technology has revolutionized communication, but it has also introduced new challenges. The prevalence of social media, dating apps, and instant gratification has led to shorter attention spans and reduced face-to-face interaction. Genuine emotional connection and intimacy can suffer as a result, making it more difficult to establish and maintain deep, meaningful relationships.

Fear of Commitment

A term which has recently been used a lot more. Thanks to the abundance of choices on dating apps or maybe otherwise, some individuals may struggle with commitment due to the fear of missing out on potentially better options. The "grass is greener" mentality can undermine the commitment and effort required to nurture a long-lasting relationship. The fear of settling for less or the belief that there might be someone more compatible can lead to a lack of perseverance and premature relationship endings.

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Shift in priorities

People today have more opportunities for personal growth, career advancement, and individual pursuits. As a result, priorities have shifted, and the focus on long-term commitment has waned. The emphasis on personal fulfilment and autonomy can sometimes conflict with the dedication required for a lasting relationship.

The unrealistic idea of love

While everyone deserves love like in a fairytale, it does have a fear sheer of adjustment and compromise. Media portrayals of romance often create unrealistic expectations of relationships. Romantic movies, novels, and social media can perpetuate the idea of constant excitement, passion, and perfection in love. When reality fails to meet these lofty ideals, dissatisfaction can arise, leading to relationship dissatisfaction and a desire to seek greener pastures elsewhere.

Other stresses

We can all agree with the fact that everyone is much more stressed than how much they used to be a decade or two ago. With long working hours, financial pressures, and a fast-paced lifestyle, can leave individuals with limited time and energy to invest in their relationships. Balancing career aspirations, family obligations, and personal interests can strain a relationship, leading to neglect and eventual dissolution.

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Building relationships that can stand the test of time

While the initial excitement and passion may fade over time, it is possible to keep the spark alive and cultivate a deep and fulfilling connection with your partner. Here are some ways where you can build a long-lasting relationship:

Be sure before committing

"Commitment is essential in any relationship, but here's the catch- promising forever to someone before confirming that the feelings will last will lead to rather devastating outcomes. This tip is for the early stages of a relationship- make sure the feelings are love and not mere infatuation because the latter is rather fleeting. When two people take their time getting to know each other and fall slowly but steadily for one another's flaws and perfections, the relationship that develops is far more probable to be a lasting one that can withstand every bump in the road and make it till the promised forever," says Ravi Mittal, founder QuackQuack.

Always keep communication as the top-most priority

Open and honest communication forms the bedrock of any successful relationship. Foster a safe and non-judgmental space where both partners can express their thoughts, feelings, and concerns. Regularly check in with each other, actively listen, and strive to understand your partner's perspective. Effective communication strengthens emotional intimacy, resolves conflicts, and fosters mutual trust.

Choose the right partner

"One of the most critical aspects of building the perfect relationship is doing so with the right person. Merely because two people have a great rapport and their choices are more or less alike does not mean they will make a perfect pair. Choosing the ideal partner involves looking beyond that initial strong desire to be with anyone who puts forth the bare minimum of effort and attention and evaluating true compatibility based on shared core values, aspirations, thought processes, and, yes, also assessing passion for one another. It's a frequent misconception that finding the right person will make everything fall into place. No, everything falls into place with consistent effort. However, the right person makes every effort put into the relationship worthwhile," adds Mittal.

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Don't succumb to FOMO or peer pressure

"27% of women daters express regret on rushing into a relationship all because their friends were all committed at the time," adds a QuackQuack survey. If you feel like getting into a relationship or being with someone should only be done because everyone is doing it then you won't feel as fulfilled and satisfied as you should. Learn about the person before knowing they are the one.

Doing shared activities

Spending quality time together is vital for maintaining a strong bond. Prioritize your relationship by setting aside dedicated time for shared activities and experiences. Engage in activities that you both enjoy and explore new ones together. This can range from going on date nights, taking walks, or pursuing mutual hobbies. Regularly creating new memories and shared adventures strengthens the connection between partners.

Keep the romance going

Maintaining the romantic aspect of a relationship requires effort and creativity. Surprise your partner with thoughtful gestures, romantic dates, or small surprises. Continually explore ways to keep the flame of desire alive by setting aside intimate time, whether through physical affection, cuddling, or exploring new ways to express love and passion. A balance between emotional and physical intimacy is essential for long-term satisfaction.

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Remember that a thriving relationship is a journey, and with love, patience, and commitment, it can grow even stronger with time.