10 Signs You Still Have Feelings For Your First Love
Nobody forgets their first day in college, their first paycheck＃ or their first love. Especially the latter, which becomes a magical point in memory when things were simple and good and happy. It doesn＊t matter how far we get in life, we always remember the first person we really liked in a fond manner 每 but if these 10 points are true for you, you might just still be secretly in love with them.
1. Think About Them Everyday
Nobody forgets their first day in college, their first paycheck＃ or their first love. Especially the latter, which becomes a magical point in memory when things were simple and good and happy. It doesn＊t matter how far we get in life, we always remember the first person we really liked in a fond manner 每 but if these 10 points are true for you, you might just still be secretly in love with them.
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You think about them almost every day. You do not do it consciously 每 but one train of thought leads to another and BAM! Before you know it, you＊re thinking about them even before you realize it.
2. Stalking Social Networking Profiles
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You stalk their Facebook profile more frequently than you would ever care to admit. You tell yourself that you＊ll just scroll through the main profile for a few seconds 每 and soon you are digging into each comment under each post and photo.
3. Still Dream About Them
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You still have vivid dreams about them on random nights and you wake up feeling confused the next day. Sometimes you get up so disoriented; it actually takes you a couple of minutes to get back to reality.
4. Compare Them With Other Lovers
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You cannot help but compare your new partners to your first love subconsciously. You might be in a happy relationship yourself presently, but you go through with the ＆what if＊ scenarios too often in your head for it to be healthy.
5. Undying Hope Of Reunion
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Some part of you still thinks that there is a remote possibility that you two will end up together in the future. It does not matter that they are seeing other people, or you two have not been in touch for years 每 you just feel (or really hope, to be precise) that destiny will turn things around one day.
6. Feelings About Revisiting Old Places
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You cannot go to the same places you used to hang out with them in the past without feeling either very nostalgic or very uncomfortable 每 whether it＊s a street corner or a coffee shop. Either way, you can just see old memories play out behind your eyes when you are there.
7. Know More VS. Show Less
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When you meet common friends who do not know you still care for your ex, you are faced with a dilemma of wanting to know more about how the person is doing versus trying to appear ice-cool on the outside. But if your friends do know about your feelings, you will drop that cool fa?ade and hound them for every little detail＃ every time.
8. Nostalgia Nights
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You think it＊s perfectly okay to sometimes dedicate an entire evening drinking alone and thinking about them while listening to the songs you remember them by. It＊s catharsis, you tell yourself, as you line up your playlist with numbers that both of you loved listening to.
9. Their Moving On
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The hardest thing you have had to deal with is knowing that they have moved on 每 got engaged or married. Even after this, if you are still stuck on #5, you know you are in big trouble!
10. Remember Every Tiny Detail
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Most importantly, you can recall with exact details how you felt when you met them for the first time. It was probably because you were feeling those feelings for the first time＃ or they were teenage hormones, but if years later you can still revisit those memories in clear detail, you＊re still very much in love with your first love, mate!
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