From Plates To Personalities: Servers Reveal How Diners Are Judged Based On Their Dining Habits

Every decision a person makes when dining, from the menu to table etiquette, can reveal something about their personality. Unintentionally passing judgement on diners based on their habits is common for servers, who are the silent witnesses to our culinary exploits.

This piece delves into the perspectives served by servers, revealing the intriguing ways they interpret patrons' personalities based on their dining preferences.

Who Is The Server?

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The two waitresses at the American Steakhouse are the servers.

@kelly.ella86, a TikTok user, and her colleague revealed in a video that they frequently make snap judgements about their patrons as soon as they enter the establishment.

What Did The Server Judge?

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With 1.6 million views, the viral video exposes their candid¡ªand harsh¡ªopinions under the title "romanticizing our job." Every one of their messages starts, "We're waitresses," in response to the widely shared social media prompt, "We're girls."

The video begins, "We're waitresses; we're gonna get upset when you order a Coke and water and only drink the Coke." The second waitress joked, "We're going to laugh at your jokes because you pay our bills," suggesting that the jokes aren't hilarious and that they're just trying to get a bigger tip.

The two waitresses went on in the video to discuss their behind-the-door experiences, saying things like, "We don't have the authority to turn down the thermostat just because you're cold," or "We're going to tell you your food's almost ready when we've probably just rung it in." and "We're going to talk about you in the kitchen when you order a hot tea" and "We're going to get yelled at when you ask for special prep."

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They resolved the argument about couples sitting on different sides of the table or the same, touching on contentious public displays of affection. They acknowledged, "As waitresses, we will judge you if you and your boyfriend sit on the same side of the booth."

Most viewers agreed with the women, even though the post's comments have been disabled, presumably to prevent a contentious debate. Regarding booth canoodling, one person remarked, "You may be trying to declare to the world that you're madly in love, but you're just making yourself look bad."

"It almost seems like you're engaging in a game called 'Let's see how awkward we can make everyone else feel' with the general public." And you're winning," one more person said in the conversation.

When Did This Happen?

This happened recently on TikTok.

Where Are The Servers From?

The servers are from the USA.

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